Peaceful and Blissful
03Jan84
typical Capricorn
obstinate > compliant
pessimistic > optimistic
introvert > extrovert
planner > spontaneous
dilligent > sluggish
cherish personal time
White Tees
Black Jeans
Pink PSP/DS
White SideTable
Marie France Treatments
Batam Spa Treats
Kelvin
Lyd
Lindy
Wiz
John
Ken
Friendster
XiaXue
To Avoid: Shi Hui (Yr2)
To Catch: Sharon Tan (Yr3), Mui Chan (Yr2), Wen Xiu (Yr2)
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something cross my mind : is that true friendship btw a guy and a gal? happened to come across someone's blog, the friendship bond established btw them was so strong that arose my curiosity. Their bond builds on a - far too close a proximity that somehow hard to believe that they are juz best buddies. It sets mi thinking - myself and a few of my best guy buddies out there.. have we actually cross the border of gd friends and mislead other ppl to think this way too? Hmm... take the case of Jiming. b4 the week i embarked on my poly journey, i got to know him. haha.. its kinda a joke on how we met each other.. hes actually my mum's friend - working in the same company. Mum was kind of excited to announce to the world that i was admitted to NP - Business and this was how Jiming knew. He was studying in NP back then so he somehow voluteer to take care of mi. So my mum actually wanted mi to meet up with him so that i wont be so lost as a newbie in NP. Surprising i agreed to compromise - with my attitude, i seldom agreed to such "blind date." maybe blamed on the fate ya.. thats how i got myself a irriating buddy.
Well.. i could still recalled vividly.. for the start of my poly days, he kinda fa to mi.. maybe i nv have a friend whos so enthu in establishing a closer and stronger friendship. Or should i say, im the taking party and hes the giving party - thats how a friendship works. u will surprise how close the both of us can be.. *keep in mind that till date.. we are still gd friends for coming 4 years. As a gentleman.. he will fetch mi home from sch whenever he got the time.. keep mi accompany for lunch or dinner when i have no accompany, shop with mi - be it the lingeria dept or woman dept, post crazily in front of the camera, study with mi (or maybe the other way round.. =P).. okie, u may think that all the aboved mentioned are kinda common in our era. what abt the trust builds btw us was to the extend that sharing a same bed was nothing. yes.. we do share a same bed when he came over for stayover esp when it was exam period and soccer match (although both of us like diff team). im perfectly fine with it as i trust him and so do my mum. He could call my mum to chat with her and if my mum couldnt find mi.. she will no doubt ring him up to ask for my whereabt.. haha.. perhaps hes juz too nosy as he will call mi quite a couple of times in a day and asked where was i. hee.
he was one of the rare one among all my frenz.. that i will be angry with, hang his call and show lots of attitude on. coz.. im those type seldom display my own self in front of hi - bye frenz. haha.. can i say.. hes honoured to be one? i remembered once.. he argued so firecely with mi over his gf (or ex-gf.. i dun noe.. its juz too complicated), i was so flared up that i decided to ignore him for couple of days. He called back to apologize and i was kinda happy in a sense ya.. coz, i did feel weird without him disturbing my phones. haha.. im nuts la. i have to mention this since this entry was totally on him.. his decision on studying overseas began more of a joke to mi as i have already took for granted that.. he will be by my side whenever i need a shoulder to lean on and to share my sorrow or joy with. apparently.. his decision was not a impulse one though. I recalled that afternoon.. he called: "hey, r u free later a not?" mi: " ya.. y?" he: " i need to get my visa done.. go with mi la." i stunned. paused. mi: "har.. so fast and u reali gng?" him: " ya la" okie. this is for real. i kept him accompany to that ulu place to get his visa done.. the afternoon was still okie perhaps.. the feel of not having him by my side was not that pathetic yet. and soonz.. he reali got to leave to embark on his overseas journey. hmm.. i sent him off and the next few days were somehow weird but wasnt too bad maybe a month b4 he left.. he was juz too bz with his gf so i kinda trained and prepared myself for his absence. however, i do hope he will return for his summer holiday soon.
Remembered the first meet up after he was back.. i met him at jurong point during my lunch break. its kinda hard to explain.. on my feelings ya. i know i miss him quite abit. but when i saw him.. i dont feel mo seng at all. it was juz like old days.. lunch+chat, juz like b4. maybe thats what friendship is. no matter how far friends are.. they have a place in our hearts. as long as we make an effort to remember the time we used to spend tgt.. we will never feel strange even when they are away for some time. * study hard jiming! and im hoping to see u sooonz. hugz!!